You Need Consistency to Win

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In anything, sport or business, if you want to get to the top of your game, studying those at the top can give you a lot of great information. Although many elite athletes work with experts on their mental game, the general public doesn’t usually hear about it. It leaves the wrong impression about mental game. Young athletes need to know that mindset doesn’t come automatically, it takes attention and consistent work.

One thing that high achieving athletes have in common is consistency. They recognize that consistency is essential in order to compete at the highest levels. Continue reading “You Need Consistency to Win”

Handle Perfectionism in Figure Skating

The following question is from a concerned parent:

I have a 12 year old skater who is a perfectionist. This controls her whole life. In competition, if she falls on one jump, it is devastating to her and she can’t control her emotions. She shuts down and can’t compete or perform. She is a high achiever in school and first chair violin. Her coaches say she has the potential to reach Nationals in the future, but the biggest thing holding her back is her mindset.

She is so hard on herself. Nothing she does is ever good enough. There are many days in practice that she is in tears of frustration. I keep asking her if she wants to quit but she just gets more upset.

I have tried reading books to her, motivational quotes, journaling and even not allowing her to skate if she cries on the ice, but nothing works. I need advice.

— Sports Mom

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The Secret to a Great Performance in Competition

Are you in your happy place?

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Not the first question you’d expect if you are a high level competitive skater. Especially not before you start your off ice warm up on competition day.

I have worked with countless athletes, researched excellence, and am a student of life. It is true, being happy allows you to do your best work. Every day I teach athletes strategies that help them to get to their “happy place”.

That is why I was so blown away when a coach told me that he asked this of his skater.

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How to Deal With Self Doubt

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This article is about a common cause of frustration for skaters. One that slows them down and can keep them stuck, season after season.

It happens anytime a skater is unhappy with the skills they have (or skills they lack). For some skaters this happens after the intense the summer training season just before their big competitions. But for many this happens every week, or even daily. Continue reading “How to Deal With Self Doubt”