Mental Mindset: Your (Best) Choice

girl in field splitshireAre you ever frustrated because you aren’t “the best” at something? When I was a girl, I wanted to be the best in everything I did. I remember crying and feeling frustrated because it seemed like no matter what I did, I was never the “best.”

It turns out there was nothing wrong with me.  The flaw was in my mindset, the way I was thinking. Continue reading “Mental Mindset: Your (Best) Choice”

How to Train A Mindset of Confidence and Trust

The words Confident and Champion are usually used together.SplitShire_IMG_6922-e1450361130756-1800x1200

Have you ever seen a test session?  A kid goes out there, and it looks like they don’t have a care in the world.  They skate with confidence, and even though they made a few mistakes—they pass.

At that same test session, you did what was required of you, you were very careful, mindful of each movement because you were worried that you would make mistake and fail.  In fact you only made only one minor mistake–but you didn’t pass. Continue reading “How to Train A Mindset of Confidence and Trust”

Give Yourself Permission to Dream Big

There are many reasons we don’t allow ourselves to dream big, to reach beyond reality.
Maybe you that if you declare yourself to the world, people will think you are stupid, delusional, or crazy.

It’s too scary. I want it so much it will hurt if I don’t get it.

The other day I retweeted this:

Morolake Akinosun represents the US.  She declared her dream to the world and 5 years later she made good on her promise. Continue reading “Give Yourself Permission to Dream Big”

Post Competition Plan Helps You Train Like an Elite Athlete


Most skaters focus their energies on preparing for the competition and the competition itself, but don’t give much thought to what they do after the competition.

No, I’m not talking about the party or ice cream with friends.   I’m talking about planning for physical and mental recovery.

Planning what to do after a competition is not very glamorous, but without it, a skater’s risk for injury and burn out increases. Continue reading “Post Competition Plan Helps You Train Like an Elite Athlete”